Kids’ birthday parties: A mom’s reflection on reducing over-consumption
“Oh no… my kid is going to a friend’s birthday party this weekend and I have to find a present!” How often have I heard that heartfelt lament? Often enough that I decided, when my own daughter was old enough to have parties with her friends, that their parents would never need to go through that. My solution couldn’t be simpler: no presents. Since then, I’ve heard about many parents who have followed suit, at least in my little town of Richmond in Quebec’s Eastern Townships region.
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Two weeks ago, my daughter celebrated her 7th birthday, and I suggested a new concept: “Let’s ask your friends to bring non-perishable food items (of course, I explained the meaning of the term) so you can donate them to a food bank! Instead of receiving, you’ll be giving to others.” She agreed, perhaps without fully understanding the meaning behind it. Since then, I was surprised to realize her story has gotten people talking, going as far as to make the front page of our regional newspaper. This visibility has led other parents to share similar ideas with me, and today, I am passing them on to you.
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Next time you’re holding a birthday party, ask the other kids to bring things such as:
- A used children’s book from their bookcase to donate to a public library or to an organization that holds annual used book sales to raise funds.
- A used article of clothing to donate to a non-profit thrift store or to Certex.
- A used toy to donate to local organizations that collect them for Christmas baskets for example. Réno-Jouets, in Québec, is one such group.
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Each time, set up a meeting between your child and a representative of the organization so that they get a more direct sense of their community’s realities.
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Easy and inexpensive activities
As for activities to do with friends, you don’t need to spend a fortune on piñatas, gift bags and all kinds of toys. We made a little greenhouse with materials that were headed to the recycling bin anyway. The kids loved playing in the dirt and planting seeds, and they left with a memento that won’t end up in the garbage. You can also play little chefs and make a potluck recipe with the kids. They’ll get to bring a delicious treat home!
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If you have other ideas, please share them—they may inspire many parents!
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